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June 2024
Volume 10 | Issue No. 85
The act of being a father is deeply
ingrained in societal norms. Fatherhood
often conjures images of a provider,
disciplinarian, or an authoritative figure
within the family structure. However,
the essence of fatherhood extends far
beyond these constraints. This essay
aims to observe the impact fathers have
on their children and how the father-
child relationship impacts the personal
development of the father.
Historically, fatherhood has been defined
by the father being economically
responsible for the family, but in putting
more emphasis on being the family's
financial support little emphasis has been
put on the father's contribution to the
emotional well-being of the child. Society's
emphasis on the breadwinning role of
fathers has frequently overshadowed the
significance of their active involvement
in parenting tasks. This emphasis has
perpetuated the notion that fathers should
prioritize work over family, amplifying the
perceived conflict between traditional
masculinity and nurturing parenting
roles. Consequently, fathers have often
found themselves torn between societal
expectations of being the primary provider
and the desire to engage meaningfully in
their children's lives.
Society's prioritization of monetary success
has frequently steered fathers towards
prioritizing career advancement at the
expense of meaningful engagement with
their children. Consequently, fathers who
solely fixate on providing financially can
disrupt their family's dynamic, resulting
in strained relationships, emotional
detachment, and a deficit of parental
guidance— destabilizing the household.
The children of fathers who are absent
from the household, both physically and
emotionally, tend to have more behavioral
issues, lower academic achievement, and
emotional instability. This research shows a
direct link between a child's self efficacy
and their relationship with their father.
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If you are a father or know men who are fathers, it is imperative to
get connected with helpful support and resources so men are best
equipped for the role of fatherhood.